Moments of Reflection with Karmen Chan


"When we forget we are sinners, we forget our need for Christ. And when we forget Christ, we forget everything". -John Paul II



I spent another full Saturday at Duc in Altum with my new extended family of Duc-ers. After every session God always gives me a message to take back home. Our session was on 'Reconciliation with oneself, others and God'.

My main take-aways were:

[1] Our wounds from our past can subconsciously affect our future.

I was always under the impression that our past does not necessarily define our future. I've come to realize that subconsciously the events from our past, whether they were deep wounds scarred by something or someone or small hurts and challenges we face, all of our experiences can and will surface one day without us being aware of it. In order to 'reconcile' with these hardships, we need to recognize these very real wounds, claim them and with God's grace learn to let them go. It's not easy, but it starts with self-awareness.

[2] The Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation is a repeated opportunity to go back to Jesus.

I left the session with a greater appreciation for this sacrament. Simply put, this sacrament allows us to restore our relationship with God. All He wants from us is to be in constant union with him. When we recognize and acknowledge our sins, we can 'reconcile' and re-attach ourselves to God.

[3] Going to confession is our way of telling God that we trust Him completely through our vulnerability and openness.

I walked away from my confession with the priest feeling very renewed as always. If you let God's love and mercy into your heart you will radiate and be transformed! What a great feeling!

[4] Easter is a time of celebration!
Just like when the Prodigal Son came home, his Father celebrated for his son was 'once lost and has been found'!

Dear Lord,
Thank you again for your gracious mercy and the gift of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. May you always remind me that all you need from me is a relationship with you.
Amen